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Keys to Avoid Failure and Attract Success in a Work From Home Business in MLM.

By: Nick A. James

Think about this statement - we attract a girlfriend or boyfriend or spouse.

We attract many things, we can also do things to alienate people or things.

Want to alienate someone, try not bathing or brushing your teeth for a month or two.
They won't come anywhere near you.

Now think about things you might do to attract someone like losing weight or driving a new car.
Face it certain things we do like good grooming attract others and poor habits like chewing with your mouth open tend to alienate others.

Success in network marketing or a home business, our habits attract it or we inadvertently push it out of our reach. Most people without realizing it do the latter.

In order to succeed in a work from home direct sales business here's items to avoid.

We must first understand how our subconscious mind functions, it can't tell the difference from reality and non-reality. In this regard it's like a computer in that it only gives us out what we program in.

When our thoughts and overall attention is focused on negative things like, why can't I lose weight, or earn more money we are programming it just like a computer. Our subconscious mind is quite the ignorant fellow, when we sarcastically say I could sure use a hole in my head it's the fellow that in all seriousness responds back, "how big a hole would you like?"�

So how do we train our mind to only attract what we want?

First we must realize that the world is made up of energy, our thoughts are energy, everything ever created started with a thought.

So we ultimately create our success through the energy of our thoughts.

Start out each day by looking for reasons to feel grateful for everything we have and speak them out loud. Being grateful or thankful is like a conditioning exercise. It prepares our mind and creates positive energies for a productive and successful day. In order to remain in this state throughout the day carry something in your pocket that will remind you to be grateful.

Your next step is to define precisely what you want prior to asking. I'm sure you are aware of the expression from the Bible, Ask and you shall receive!

Here is what most people have totally wrong about asking for what they want.

Due to people's misconception about asking, I believe it is extremely important that you understand how wealth creation helps others or you're liable to be unsuccessful.

Many people are under the wrong impression that there is only so much wealth to spread around and if they take more, than other people will go without. Stop thinking like this immediately. When people over the last few hundred years worked harder to produce more for themselves the natural byproduct was that everyone around them also had more.

Many people without actually thinking about it just think of most wealthy people as being selfish. Before we ask for something we are either selfish or unselfish in our heart. Actually we can never only create wealth and riches for only ourselves. This process also creates more wealth for many others.

Question there are two people both equally unselfish, one is rich one is poor, which of the two has the ability to help others most?

Many people and leaders in the world would like you to think they are being noble and unselfish. They'll make statements like the rich should pay more in taxes to provide more benefits for poor people. Although they never propose actually taxing wealth, but an increase in income taxes on the rich. Because income is actually a measure of production, what they are really proposing is this. If you produce a lot and thus help many others you will have to pay more, this discourages productivity. On the other hand someone who produces little is taxed less, almost encouraged to be lazy and produce less. I'm not proposing it but it actually makes more sense to tax accumulated wealth than a tax on the production of wealth (income tax). But you'll never see a tax on wealth already obtained proposed, as many of the people running things are already wealthy.

There have always been those who want to control others, give their definition of selfishness. This can become a problem when these people get in power and have control of others lives.

I'm sure you are aware that government gets its money to run things through taxes. Pretty much a no-brainer here. But let's take this a step further. Most people in government have never had their own business to generate wealth. Until you've created wealth in a business it's hard to understand how it's done so it's easy for them to believe wrong principals like in order for someone to become richer someone else had to become poorer. Actually that's the only way government has to make someone wealthier by taking from someone and giving it to someone else, as government produces nothing on its own. Actually this would make society as a whole poorer. When an individual through business becomes richer other people and society also become richer as a by-product. This is because they produce something for this wealth, while government does not.

Okay we're back off our tangent let's get back to asking and its role in success.

Asking is more than simply thinking, it consists of properly defining and being very precise in what we want (be it a new home, special vacation, working from home. Our standard response is to just say we want a bunch of money or a new car without being specific. Like we established earlier our subconscious mind can't think or reason. It doesn't understand a bunch of money and thus doesn't know what to do to help us get it. What it does understand is something like $123,456 in our savings account, or a specific 3-story brick house on a lake with a boat dock.

So the bottom line is to receive something we desire we must learn to ask properly. When you were young and desired something from your parents if you didn't ask properly they weren't going to give you what you desired. And here's the proper formula: Be very specific, write it down, or print it out, or get pictures of it (a house, car, boat or whatever). Then practice on a regular or daily basis visualizing yourself in your new home or driving your new car.

It is critical you understand this concept. When you were young and asked your parents for something you always got an answer. It may not have been the answer you were looking for but you got an answer. The same is true in our pursuit of success. If we have properly prepared to receive what our desire is we will receive it, otherwise it will be postponed until we are prepared.

It seems the world will only let us receive what we asked for if we are prepared first. It would serve us no good to ask for winning an Olympic Gold winner in a sport we had never trained in. So a certain amount of training prepares us to receive what our goal is. It's not enough to just think about our goal, we need to expect to achieve it. Most people place limits on themselves by thinking, "I'd like to however, I could never afford to live in a Million Dollar home". When we think these negative thoughts we program our subconscious mind to think all these statements are true and so it will continue to help keep us poor as long as we think this way.

There are only a couple reasons why a person should not be at least fairly comfortable in a wealthy society. They lack understanding or in this case knowing the rules of the game. Or they are just lazy. This article is not to help the lazy, in most cases they won't read this article. No this article is intended to give people the understanding of the rules of the game. The law of success is a law. You must abide by the rules of this law to be successful.

I believe that we who know how to attract success have an obligation to carry through with success or we will never be happy. Success also comes with an obligation to help those less fortunate, and helping people gives you a certain satisfaction you can't achieve any other way. The Bible even commands us not to forsake or overlook the poor. However, helping doesn't just mean giving charity. I believe is also means enlightening people poor in knowledge with the principals of attracting success so they can rise up on their own.

So the key to attracting success is learning to control our thoughts. Without even realizing it we'll often gravitate toward thinking negative. For example: Why can't I lose weight, a better thought would be, I'm not committed to losing weight because if I were I would be good-looking fit. Instead of; I can't afford that, a better thought would be, I'm going to have that or I simply choose not to purchase it now as I choose something better. Instead of thinking; I would like to have that; say or think; I will have that.

Never and I repeat never should you use the words want or wanting or need or needing. Doing so programs your subconscious mind to be in want or need. (A wealthy person is not in want or in need.) I will or I'm going to have something is a better more positive choice. Saying positive affirmations for the purpose of speaking positive affirmations is of no value, they're only of value if they inspire confidence and belief.

Mental programming of positive thinking attracts success. Of high importance is a learned value system of wisdom and principals, of love and caring for others, that should guide our thoughts like the Biblical 10 Commandments. Who can forget the many evil men, that were guided by their own self-interests, regardless of how they hurt others, they thought they were right. They were confident and certainly attracted worldly success, but without a love for fellow humanity they reigned extreme misery on mankind (men like Hitler, Stalin, Mao and many more).

Thus I believe it is very important that what we do, we do with an attitude of love toward our fellow man.

I have a question for you. Can you recall a totally confident person who has been totally unsuccessful?

Remember, to attract success like it was metal filings and you were a magnet, practice the power of focusing your thoughts.

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Nick A. James offers home based business reviews, vitamins products and a Goji Health Drink Blog. Contact him at: www.healthfulberry.com/goji-juice-resources.html His years of business experience puts him in a valuable position to help others looking for a lucrative work from home Goji Juice Business.

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